Sunday, February 20, 2011

Ceremony Details

This weekend, Terry and I drove through some fairly crazy weather to my parents' house for some minor wedding errands. On Saturday morning, we met with our amazing pastor, Frank. He is truly an incredible man and wonderful mentor to us as we prepare for our nuptials in just a few months. Pastor Frank gives us his undivided attention every time we meet with him, and we love talking with him about our concerns, his wishes and advice for us, our thoughts on marriage, and his ideas for the ceremony. We feel so lucky that serendipity led us to meet Frank, and we are so looking forward to his officiating our wedding. He has some incredible, unique ideas to make the ceremony personal while still traditional, religious while still respectful and inviting of other beliefs. We love that Frank has taken the time to get to know us so well as a couple, and he even made the effort to meet our parents to extend his understanding of who we are. Terry and I both love this part of wedding planning; the ceremony really matters the most. The rest is a big party and a great celebration, but the ceremony is where we take our vows and share our decision to marry with our closest friends and family. Frank is helping us make sure that the ceremony is about us and our parents, and I even teared up a little just imagining the big day. I keep reminding myself that after all this fun, lengthy, somewhat silly, somewhat tense wedding planning, we will ultimately get to the point where we finally be husband and wife. And that'll make it all worth it!

Saturday, we also spent some quality time with Terry's parents scoping out potential venues for the rehearsal dinner. Originally, we had intended for the rehearsal dinner to be at my parents' house, but Terry's parents pointed out that a dinner closer to the wedding venue would be much more practical and far less stressful for all involved. We are excited that they're willing to plan the dinner for us, and we know the night will be amazing! We're definitely keeping our dinner small; the rehearsal is traditionally just the bridal party and any involved in the wedding, along with the bride's and groom's parents. It'll be so nice to be able to spend time with each of these people that night before the chaos of the wedding day, and we're excited about the funny stories we'll all share! So to make some decisions on the rehearsal dinner location, we started with a list from the Palm Event Center, ate at two of the places, and then scouted out the others. We crossed off a few, and Terry's parents will be able to make a very informed decision. Thankfully, most of the options look great, and we should be able to enjoy an intimate, relaxed rehearsal dinner before the big day.

Tomorrow, I get the day off for President's Day (thank you, George and Abe!), so I'm dedicating a good chunk of my day to my DIY projects for the wedding, including invitations and place card holders. We're having a grand old time with the wedding planning, but part of me is ready to just be married already! :-) All in good time!

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